Greetings Ikue!

We've never met, I dont know the church, and most likely anyone
involved.

The one thing I would have to say is perhaps the Church might get
involved in such a matter. They may or may not.. but I would think
matters of marriage might have some weight in thier minds, as it is a
matter of honor and of the heart. If you pledge your love for someone,
that should be enough in my eyes for anyone to witness, but for whatever
reason someone has decided upon themself to make it their business....

It is not anyone's business where your heart lies. I would hope all
understand that and realize love knows no bounds. ... Someone not
willing to speak to you, or have the honor to do so face to face is
someone that offers little effort in your time.. but the effort
obviously is to cause trouble. Why? I do not know, but it seems..
someoen trying to break vows shojld be possibly looked at by the the
church. Maybe I'm speaking to the winds.. I'm sure as always there are
allot of negative comments on these newsboards.. but I'm also sure there
allot of supporting people that might speak from the heart and not to
hear their own words.

Fortunately, I've recently as well, myself.. congradulations in your
wedding and mine needs none, as I'm congradulated each day I see my
bride, but no words can stray a true couple that knows the heart of
eachother, and I hope you feel the same about your beloved. Good luck!

Empusas Atreide

Penned by my hand on the 5th of Ero, in the year 400 AF.